We met about a year ago. It was kind of love at first sight for both of us.
There were of course a few other guys, some are even better than the one I picked, but hey my guts told me he is the right one for me.
So we went on for more than one year now. of course there were ups and downs, there are no such thing as perfect relationship in this world.
Our anniversary came. Not only that he didn't have any present for me, he even told me that I didn't meet his girlfriend-expectation.
I cried all night long thinking what should I do, or could I have done better. But I think about it through and I'm very sure I've done my best-girlfriend.
So he has to adjust his expectation. But only if it is possible.
So I'm thinking of dumping him before he dumps me.
But dumping him, means dumping the whole circle of friends I met while I'm with him. They are wonderful people.
Plus, even if he's such a jerk, he's still that kind of guy that is hard to find at this kind of time.
And plus it was only a year, should I or should I not give him another chance (to appreciate me), say, another year (that means, gives me another chance to be a better girlfriend too) ?
I hate to think about the road that was not taken. Please.
p/s: Istikarah jalan terbaik?
14 comments:
i think you should break-up with him.
ha????!!!!
I think I told u this before..it is important to find someone who can accept u for who u are.
If u are not perfect in his eyes then he should encourage u to be a better person. Not demanding or force u to change.
It is a big decision to make. So choose wisely. I'm sure u have lots of friends who can give u good advice. Hear it out..give urself time to think and do what u think is rite. :)
same reaction with magh
a year sudah..
bile kamu nk bgtau kami2 nih
huhuhu
apesal ko nihhhhhhhhh
ko nk dump sape or ape?kete ko ker?haha
i appreciate your concern and curiosity people but i rilly need your kind words and advice.
if i were to be in this situation (not saying that im not) what would you suggest.
explaination will follow, but for the meantime, im taking dayana's and aswad's comments only.
thanks.
if you believe and confidence on what you have now is good for the future, then don't stop giving the chance.
as for me, i only stop not because im giving up but because he's not worth of every single effort i put :)
hmm..
kenapa mesti suka orang yang buat kita sedih?
We should never ever have to feel inadequate for the one we love, because it's a two way thing. We can't always be the one doing all to make the relationship work, he has got to want it too. Clear the air: does he want it as bad as u want it? What are the things u both willing to do to make it work?
Sit down, think it over and decide whether its worth the fight to stay on.
kakak.
you know, sometimes, tak kisah tanya orang banyak mana pun, in the end you have to listen to yourself saja.
only you know what you've been thru with him. org lain speculate byk byk pun, theyll never know what its really like.
you are the one yang rasa. hence, you are the one who's supposed to decide.
think abt it: does the good time overrule the bad ones? if so, mungkin its worth it to try lagi.
but one thing u should keep in mind : relationships are supposed to be complimentary of a good life. bukannya sebab relationship tu dysfunctional, ur life jadi tonggang terbalik.
trust me. i should know. :) (saya kan dewa segala dysfunctionalities tuuu.haha)
whatever it is, all the best yea? i hope it works out for u. :)
(sorry buat karangan pulak kat sini. heheh)
hoho i dunno whats going on here. but you got pretty good advices up there. :) lucky you, you have awesome friends!
what...?? i cant give you advice here!
Good advice Merissa..totally agreed with u. In the end zac have to make her own decision.
Think what is best for your life..wheter to move on or give it another try. Think on long term basis..coz time flies really fast.
susah kite nak dapat sesuatu yang kite suke ni.
nak2 yang fussy tapi kool macam u.
so.
listen to ur heart(ada nada untuk ini)
for me, relationship is supposed to be easy. it should be a breeze.if u feel that ur current r/ship is like that, by all means, save ur r/ship. tp kalo rs x, u know what im gonna say la. good luck z!
p/s : kawen cpt oi!
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