Tuesday, October 28, 2014

I hate it when my friend is right

Talking about jodoh, future, the one, is endless.
Expectations changed, dreams uphold, fantasies remained.
Uncertainties being discussed. What ifs questioned.

I had this conversation of 'what if the man is taken?' 'do you believe in polygamy?' with a friend.
The default answer would be no but of course the future is too far to be told, yet too near to avoid.
So we change the situation.

What if he was once married?

What if he was once married with a kid?
I said I take it as long as it's a boy which means, I don't have to share love with other girls, and I don't have to be worried of providing him his off-springs.

I can choose to give birth or not.
I'm not sharing my man with anybody.
He's not gonna get the 'Oh I have to do this, she's the mother of my children.' privilege.

I hate to admit she's right until I saw this, I can totally agree.

Sigh. I hate it when my friend is right.

Thursday, October 16, 2014


A friend of mine shared a picture of her and her husband with caption '4 years together'.
This couple I knew is in the longest run of a couple who wanted a child so bad.

I didn't want to read the comments afraid I won't like what I'd be seeing.
'Bila lagi nak bertiga?'
But to my surprise, all the comments were all wishing the couple well. Alhamdulillah.

I guess the public is now a bit educated. Or that she has filtered her friends well along the line.
Whichever, it works.

Once a friend told me, surprisingly, during last raya, she didn't receive much of Bila Lagi questions. Neither did I.
Maybe all those quotes sharing on Instagram finally work!

All in good time; believe in Allah's rezeki and plan.

Tuesday, October 14, 2014

The problem with life

The problem with life is people take simple thing seriously.
Taking light entertainment seriously. Swearing on Akademi Fantasia like why?
Or take on people who love selfies.
Or people who chose to eat alone.

One thing I love when driving around with my girl Saa is that we never really care if we got lost because we know we would eventually find the way back.

Some people, just can't.
They just can't differentiate if the issue needs attention or not.