Nasi Minyak

So you thought it's 2013 and soalan 'Bila nak makan nasi minyak?' is no longer valid is it? Well you're wrong. In the era where people can easily find nasi Beriyani and Ayam penyet, Nasi minyak still is a big deal in some people's life.

or to some people with no life.

I neither find this question is offensive nor amusive, but I sure know it's inappropriate. What if the person doesn't like Nasi Minyak. Allergic. anything. Well you know what I mean. 

Or, what if the person is still suffering from a heartbreak. You really think this question is appropriate now?

This kind of 'Bila lagi' question should really be banned. 

I have a friend whose marriage is on the rock, about to be divorced, and yet people keep asking her 'bila nak tambah anak?'. 

My God don't you people ever have faith or Imaan?

Some who have been married for years and still trying to concieve having to answer people with questions 'Belum berisi ke?' Isi schmisi my ass.

Looking at people around me I realised my nasi minyak question is not that huge, there's more to come. Once you have dished the nasi minyak people will be expecting more.

Sometimes maybe they expect nothing, they just want you to crush so badly inside, go down the drain and feel superior about themselves.

You know what, be the bigger person, don't let them own you, make them feel sorry for asking.

And when they say "OMG I'm so sorry" then you get to say "How about don't do anything to be sorry about"

Next time, if mulut dah rasa gatal robek sangat nak tanya, imagine what if I'm in their shoes.

Quoting I do (but I don't)

Lauren : Why do married people always feel the need to convert the single ones?'

Bonnie : Misery loves company.