All My Life

Was listening to some songs on youtube and then it suggested me this playlist.

My day is whole again. 

Listening to TLC, Aaliyah, Destiny's Child, KC and Jojo, Babyface, Boyz 2 Men, usher.. damn.. when do people stop making good music.

These kind of songs can make me drive all the way from Cyberjaya to Ampang down to Klang and to Bangi in one night and it won't even matter.

Kids my age must know All My Life by KC and Jojo. Seriously, isn't it the sweetest song ever?

'All my life I pray for someone like you. And I thank God that I finally found you'

Sweeeet weh.

Post Natal Princess

This is what all post labour women need.

Of course, encik suami, yada yada, whatever.

but look at Her Royal Highness herself, she's so well groomed, so pretty almost as if she has never gone 14 hours of labour before.

Apart from her natural beauty (which we all know), I have to say, big round of applause to the team that blow her hair soon as she left the labour bed, and the wardrobe team that prepare her designer dress and designer shoes.

Sigh nobody wouldn't mind given birth to a baby (let alone a king) if you can be this pretty soon after you've gone through a war. I mean look at her hair! Amazeballs!

I think we all need this team. Everybody deserves to leave the hospital like a pretty pincess. 

Time for an anjakan paradigma. Let us all fight for a post natal grooming team!

Ignorance, isn't always a bliss

I've had some good friends from my MRSM days. You know, the kind that kept you up when you're down and stuff, the kind that picked up your laundry or the ones that made your bed when you're busy.

Living in a boarding school, life depended so much on good friends, having a group of 11 girls close to you surely helped.

And then I went to UTP, I was the one and only, we all took different ways and along the way, i decided to ignore (if not ditch) most (if not all) of my MRSM girls.

I ignored their FB friends requests, purposely did not wish their birthdays (I'm a birthday person, I remember people's birthdays and I don't easily forget it), declined their invitations and basically wanted to avoid any ocassion with them.

I have no solid reason, I just don't feel like i want to. Most probably because living away from everybody in Tronoh, growing up with another set of girlfriends, i do not think this people matter anymore.

And now I think, along the way while I was avoiding them, they took some times to finally get over it. You know, after a while I saw pictures of reunion and I'm not there and I was like, waw they finally don't need me.

And it actually doesn't feel THAT good.

So yes, while people want you, maybe you don't think it matters, but make time for your people. stop making excuses, you never know what it will be like in the future.

I remember my boss once said, 'It's okay to like, or to not like, because once you don't care, it shows how bad something is'.

We are so close to not care, there were 10 of us and not one mentioned your name on any occasions, do you really want this to continue?

Maybe we don't matter to you but you matter to us.

Salam Saudara

Mohon jangan buat malu I please. I siap dedicate post kat you satu tau.

Hancurlah Hati Puteri

Sedihnya kalau husband nak kahwin lain. Nak dapat satu suami punya susahhhh :(

ps: I think it's only normal to say 'no' when your husband ask if he can remarry, despite knowing that he doesn't care what you say. Takkan nak kata boleh sila lah kahwin lagi, kan?

Hello Surprises!

Surprise birthday cake for a super mom.

Haha. I don't know if it's a surprise anymore. We have surprised Magh with so many surprises (so sweet of her husband to always contact us to surprise her wife with birthday parties and babyshower) that maybe she has a slight expectation for this surprise!

But yang surprise nya are all of us, tiba-tiba ada surprise party, not many can make it only these usual suspects. haha.

But, anytime with my girls are the best time in my life.

ps: look at Tim and Yam, so big girls now, Yam is so close to understanding our chats it's so dangerous. in just about a few months I think she would ask her Umi 'Umi cakap pasal sape mi?'

o.o haha

pps: rindu Lauhah :(

Less expectation, more satisfaction.

MasyaAllah I am so grateful today, Alhamdulillah. after 3 YEARS, finally, tak payah berebut, bergaduh, bermasam muka hal cuti raya.

Our boss is so sporting to let us go off on the second day of Raya (we actually have to come to work on second day of any public holiday) so that means, 4 days straight including weekend. Couldn't describe with words my how relieved I was when le boss said, ok you all can go off for second Raya. Very thoughtful of him.

Less expectation, more satisfaction.

I know I didn't want to take long leave, took the last flight the day before raya and last flight KL bound on Sunday, which means I don't have to take any leave before or after Raya, i was just worried about that Friday, the second day of Raya.

Slowly wajah Mak Tiri dan era pemerintahan kukubesi kabur dari ingatan. after 3 years!

Sigh. Eventhough shit happened but I can never hate my workplace. Getting awesome day by day.

Rockstar That's What You Are

Today, there was this very interesting topic on Capital.fm (I love Capital.fm I do)

'How much would you scale down your dream wedding'

You know, how as a girl, your dream of unicorns and fairytale weddings, as you grow into a woman, you would cut one by one, slowly, you even scale down your future husband.

Hah!

I know I scaled my dream wedding down (err Bali? Bubbles by the beach? Bruno Mars singing at my wedding? Really 21year old me? You gotta be kidding me!)

But..but.. I don't think I ever scale down on the guy I want to settle down with............

Ok fine Maybe I did, maybe I don't need a 5'10''..I can live with 5'8'' right? 

Maybe I don't need chinese looking guy, I can live with a Tall Dark Handsome-very KhairyKJ right?

Or maybe I don't need 5-6 figure income, I can live in a modest apartment with no children and 1 local car right? That should be doable?

But I haven't cut this off my list. He should be:-

1) A traveler.

2) A person who loves to take pictures of me because I'm vain like that.

3) A rockstar.

Doesn't need to be a rockstar, but it would be so nice if he can play guitar and serenade me one or two songs. Kinda private gigs of my own, Lovely!

 Lah v.e. - Kau Tercipta

Well berangan tak salah, berangan tak kena bayar, berangan sampai bila pon tak dapat! haha.

Money doesn't grow on tree

This may be the most depressing thing I have read lately.

Sigh. kalau ada duit banyak dah terbang pergi Delhi naik train pergi Agra untuk tengok Taj Mahal sekarang jugak.

untunglahhhhhhhhhhhh siapa yang dah pergi Taj Mahal. whatever.

Besok Puasa

I rasa dah banyak kali I dengar my friends would say 'It would be so much easier if I can marry my girlfriends'

Today I was discussing lauk sahur with a friend, how we dig into daging kering, ikan perkasam, telur mata kerbau, kicap, nasi panas for sahur, and she went.. my husband needs complete meal T_T haha

Like ayam masak kari with sayur and nasi maybe something like that, totally different from our discussion. haha.

Well..cintaaaaa.

Speaking of girlfriends, we decided to take a little break and went to Malacca for a quick getaway, and it turns out to be some kind of great food marathon. I love food I can't help it. haha.

We stayed at Hotel Equatorial (nice and pleasant stay, near to the city, totally recommended) and went to MOST famous food outlets there are in Malacca:-

1) Asam pedas Hajah Rahmah

2) Klebang Coconut Shake

3) Ikan Bakar Muara

4) Cendol durian and Baba Nyonya Laksa, Jonker 88

5) Cucur Udang Alor Gajah.

All of these are so freaking good I am so gonna go again. 

Btw we got 2 breakfasts from Equatorial so we added another 2 for RM35++ per pax and I gotta say we are so satisfied with the buffet spread we ate a lot!

Had fun at the swimming pool, ambek gamba lompat lompat at Pantai Puteri, playing tourists at Jonker Street and all, it was a great getaway, the kind of quick exit you need from your daily routine.

Selamat Puasa!

Quindon Tarver-Everybodys free (to wear sunscreen)

1. Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth

2. The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind

3. Do one thing every day that scares you

4. Sing

5. Don't waste your time on jealousy. Sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind. The race is long and in the end, it's only with yourself.

6. Remember compliments you receive, forget the insults

7. Don't feel guilty if you don't know what to do with your life

8. The most interesting people I know didn't know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives. Some of the most interesting 40-year-olds I know still don't.

9. Maybe you'll marry, maybe you won't. Whatever you do, don't congratulate yourself too much

Or berate yourself either. Your choices are half chance, so are everybody else's.

10. Dance. Even if you have nowhere to do it but your own living room.

11. Do not read beauty magazines, they will only make you feel ugly

12. Get to know your parents, you never know when they'll be gone for good

13. Be nice to your siblings, they are your best link to your past. And the people most likely to stick with you in the future

14. Understand that friends come and go. But a precious few, who should hold on.

15. Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard.

'Asalkan Hati Baik'

Aidan Shaw of Sex and the City, carpenter.

Marco or What to Expect when You're Expecting, sells food over a truck.

Neil of He's just not that into you, lives in a boat, most prolly a fisherman.

Sigh. nobody gives a crap about how much money you make if you have these face, seriously.

it matters.

*images from the net*

FF

Baby one day ya shall be mine; and we shall be one :)